E.1-9: Complexes: The Emotional Knots That Keep You Stuck — and How Christ Loosens Them

Season 1: Episode 9

Complexes: The Emotional Knots That Keep You Stuck — and How Christ Loosens Them

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In this episode of The Christian Jung Podcast, Angela Meer takes us into the hidden world of complexes — those emotional knots that tie the past to the present, shaping our reactions in ways we barely notice.

Through the lens of Carl Jung’s psychology and biblical wisdom, we explore how these inner constellations are formed, how they distort our perception, and how the Spirit of Christ invites us into their healing.

We talk about:
🔥 Why Jung called complexes “the royal road to the unconscious”
🧠 How emotional triggers reveal strongholds in the mind
💬 Stories from Scripture — Jonah, Peter, and the Samaritan woman — that show God meeting people inside their complexes
✝️ How naming your complex can be the first step toward freedom in Christ

Whether you’ve felt hijacked by an overreaction, found yourself stuck in old patterns, or wondered why certain people or situations push your buttons, this episode will help you see those moments as doorways to transformation.

  Episode Length: 15:00

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Transcript

Sometimes, what trips us up the most in life isn’t outside of us.
It’s not the economy. It’s not the difficult person in our workplace. It’s not the President.
It’s not even the devil.

It’s an inner tangle.
A knot in the soul — a hidden emotional trigger — that we didn’t even know was there.
Carl Jung called these complexes.

They aren’t just bad moods or passing irritations. They are deep-rooted, emotional constellations that pull us into the past while we’re standing in the present.
And if we can learn to see them… they can become a doorway. A doorway to healing, to self-knowledge, and — for the believer — to the sanctifying presence of Christ.

Today, we’re going to step inside that doorway. It’s time to Awaken Holy Wonder. Stay with me.

In Jungian psychology, a complex is an emotionally charged cluster of memories, feelings, and associations — all orbiting around a core theme.
They’re like bundles of meaning that live in your unconscious.

Let’s say the theme is “authority.”
Every encounter you’ve ever had with authority — from your parents to teachers to bosses — gets woven together into that complex. And here’s the tricky part: when something in the present pokes that complex, your reaction may not fit the current situation. You might be reacting not just to this authority figure… but to every past one you’ve ever known.

Jung called complexes the “royal road to the unconscious.” Why? Because you don’t have to wait until you’re asleep to meet them. They show up in broad daylight — in your tone of voice, in your sudden silence, in the way you walk away from an opportunity you secretly wanted.

Biblical connection:
The Bible gives us language for this inner terrain. Paul calls them the “strongholds” in the mind (2 Corinthians 10:4–5) and the “sin that so easily entangles” (Hebrews 12:1). David prays, “Search me, O God… see if there is any offensive way in me” (Psalm 139:23–24). These aren’t only moral concerns — they are also deep inner patterns that shape our thoughts, emotions, and relationships.

Before we go to a break, Pause for a moment and think about your week.

  • Was there a time you overreacted — and even you knew it didn’t quite match the situation?

  • Was there something you should have spoken up about, but stayed silent instead?

  • Did someone’s harmless comment feel strangely personal, almost like it was aimed at a tender, unhealed place in you?

Those are often the fingerprints of a complex.
I want you to keep one of those moments in mind as we go through today’s episode — because by the end, you might see it in a whole new light.

 

where are your complexes showing up?

In the early 1900s, Jung was working at the Burghölzli psychiatric clinic in Zurich. He was fascinated by why patients seemed to get “stuck” on certain emotional themes — why one topic would trigger anxiety, evasiveness, or strange associations.

To explore this, he developed the Word Association Test. It was simple: he’d read a word aloud, like “mother” or “death,” and ask the patient to respond with the first word that came to mind. He also timed their responses.

What he discovered was remarkable.

  • If a word touched on a sensitive theme, the patient might hesitate, give an unrelated answer, laugh nervously, or repeat the word instead of responding.

  • Even physical signs showed up — sweating, changes in breathing, shifts in voice tone.

The Word Association Tests are still used today. Jung realized these weren’t random quirks. The delayed responses and bodily changes were signs that the word had activated an emotional constellation buried in the unconscious.

He called these constellations complexes. And he noticed something astonishing — they could be so strong, they would interrupt a person’s conscious train of thought, even when they wanted to hide it.

To Jung, this meant the unconscious wasn’t just a dark attic of forgotten memories. It was alive, active, and full of structures — like complexes — that could steer the course of a person’s life.

🙋 Personal Story (5–6 mins)

Years ago, I had an experience that brought this home to me in a way I’ll never forget.

I was part of a leadership team, and someone I respected deeply offered me some constructive feedback. Their tone was kind, even encouraging — but inside me, a storm went off. My heart pounded, my face flushed, and I found myself justifying and defending before I’d even thought about what they’d said.

Later, I sat before God and asked, “What was that?”
In prayer, I saw flashes of my younger self — working so hard to prove that I was capable, feeling unseen, striving for approval. That younger self was still inside me, and when my colleague’s words touched that old wound, my complex leapt to my defense before I could think.

That day, I realized this wasn’t just about self-awareness — it was about sanctification.
God wasn’t condemning me; He was inviting me to let Him into that wounded place. The complex became a signal, showing me exactly where His healing wanted to go.

complexes in the bible

Think of Jonah. When God calls him to Nineveh, Jonah doesn’t just politely decline. He runs in the opposite direction.
Why? The text doesn’t spell out a psychological profile, but from a Jungian lens, we can imagine a “prejudice” complex — layers of fear, resentment, and cultural bias toward Ninevah. This isn’t just rebellion — it’s a whole emotional constellation, rooted in Jonah’s identity and history, being activated by God’s call.

📖 Additional Narrative Example #2 — Modern Life (2–3 mins)

A young woman I’ll call Sarah worked in a finance office. Whenever a male supervisor gave her instructions, she’d feel tense and irritable, even if his request was reasonable. After some inner work, she realized these reactions weren’t about her current boss — they were echoes of a controlling, critical father.
That “authority” complex was shaping her perception in the present. Naming it helped her separate her past from her present — and start responding instead of reacting.

📖 Additional Narrative Example #3 — Jung’s Own Complex Moment (2–3 mins)

Jung himself wasn’t immune. In Memories, Dreams, Reflections, he writes of a time when he was sharply criticized by a colleague. The criticism triggered such a strong reaction in him that he knew it was disproportionate. Upon reflection, he connected it to an old wound from his early medical career — the fear of being dismissed as unqualified. That “inadequacy” complex still lived in him, and he saw it as an ongoing invitation to self-examination.

Jung quote

emotional clusters=complexes

1. What They Are: Emotional Clusters in the Soul

A complex is like a bundle of memories, emotions, and associations wrapped around a central theme.
They are autonomous in the sense that they can take over in certain moments without our conscious consent.

Biblical Parallel:
Peter in Galatians 2 withdraws from Gentile believers because of fear of criticism. This wasn’t a reasoned theological decision — it was an old complex, a fear of man, pulling him back into old behavior patterns.

Complexes often show up around family members. I remember once, my mom and I engaging in a nice conversation when she said something that tripped up an old complex. Before I even knew what was happening, I was yelling at her in a way I hadn’t since I was a teenager.

This is why its important to understand that complexes Distort Our Perception

Complexes can distort how we hear God and interpret His leading.
A calling may come, but if a “failure” complex dominates, you may hear it as impossible.

Biblical Parallel:
Moses at the burning bush resists God’s call with, “I am slow of speech.” This isn’t God’s assessment of Moses — it’s Moses’s complex of inadequacy speaking louder than God’s divine call.

3. The Redemption Arc: Awareness, Surrender, Healing

In Jung’s view, naming a complex loosens its grip. In the Christian life, awareness is the starting point, but the Spirit takes us further — we invite Christ to search, cleanse, and rewrite it.

Biblical Parallel:
The Samaritan woman in John 4 carries a complex of shame. Jesus names her reality without condemnation — and she becomes a bold evangelist in her town.

💬 Invite Reflection (3–4 mins)

Take a moment to bring to mind that triggering situation from earlier.

  • Ask the Holy Spirit: “What is this connected to?”

  • Listen for memories, images, or emotions.

  • Don’t judge — see this as an invitation.

In the Christian Jung Community, we have guided processes for identifying complexes, mapping triggers, and bringing them into prayer — using both Jungian tools and biblical healing practices. Membership opens a few times each year at AngelaMeer.com.

Next week, we’ll explore the shadow: places in us that need Christ’s light.

But as we end tonight Sit in silence for three minutes. Invite the presence of Christ into your complexes.

 

“Lord, search me and know me. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” (Psalm 139:23–24)

Closing Prayer (St Ephrem the Syrian)

The Prayer of St. Ephrem

O Lord and Master of my life,
Take from me the spirit of sloth, despair, lust of power, and idle talk.

But give rather the spirit of chastity, humility, patience, and love to Thy servant.

Yea, O Lord and King,
Grant me to see my own transgressions and not to judge my brother,
For blessed art Thou unto the ages of ages. Amen.

 

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Please share! when was the last time you recognized a complex at work?

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